Customizing grid

Hi - I have a linked field in my db call obituary. I would like to keep all of my obituaries in one form for each cemetery. My question is how can I customize my grid and form so that when the link is selected for an individual, it will show the correct obituary. The way I have it set up now is that it goes to the correct form, but then I need to scroll down the form to view the right obituary. Is there a way???

I have a db table called "calvary_morton" - it has several fields - Id, Last Name, First Name, MOB, Status, MOD, and a linked field called "obituary". When I select Calvary Cemetery from my db listing of cemeteries, it opens the Calvary db in a form. All works correctly. It gives me a listing of all individuals in the cemetery with the above fields filled in. I want to be able to create a link in the 'obituary' field of each individual, so that when I click on eg. Ahrens, Charles - obituary link, it goes to his obituary. I have very little experience in writing a custom Id or a where clause to be able to do this. I have a 'calvary_obituary' form that has all the obituariies for Calvary Cemetery type in. Is there a way to link each individual obituary or do I have to make a separate form for each obituary, then link that to the correct individual.

Hope this makes some sense.

Thanks,

jac48